Mother, I’d Rather Do It Myself

mother and daughter

I must have been a very frustrating daughter. Strong-willed and independent, I knew what I wanted, and figured out how to do it. For example, when I asked for a bike and was told I’d have to earn it, I signed myself up to sell greeting cards around the neighborhood. That was probably in 1959, long before schools took up my brilliant idea of fund-raising. I was only 10 years old.

To this day, I remember the stern look on my mother’s face as she asked what all of the cartons were that had come in the mail for me that day. “I’m going to sell Christmas and birthday cards,” I said, batting my baby blues. “And I’ll buy my own bike.”  And I did.

Around the same time, there was a commercial on TV that became my mother’s mantra. Every time mom would offer her assistance when I was fixing my hair or doing my homework, I’d decline. She’d roll her eyes and chant, “Mother, I’d rather do it myself,” before shrugging her shoulders and walking away.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GshovE9F3F8

I don’t know why that memory has surfaced after 60 years, but I want to tell mom that I’ve finally learned I can’t do everything myself. It took me a long time to learn that lesson. That’s because I was trying to do it myself.

I tried designing my own book covers. They looked home-made. I now have a cover-designer who’s awesome! I tried proofing my own books. How do those few pesky typos find their way into the final copy? I now have a detail-driven proof-reader. I tried creating my own marketing strategy to get the word out about my books. I was lucky if I sold a book-a-month. I now have a cluster of readers who have spread the word and sales have dramatically increased.

You were right, mom. I can’t do it all myself. But I’m blessed to have wonderful people in my life to help and support me. I’m a lucky gal.

 

Easy Yule Log

Easy Yule Log

Make it easy on yourself by using pre-packaged items to build this holiday treat.

Course Dessert
Cuisine English
Keyword Yule Log
Prep Time 35 minutes
Cook Time 15 minutes
Total Time 50 minutes
Servings 20

Ingredients

  • 6 Eggs
  • 1 box Devil’s Food Cake Mix
  • 1/2 cup Water
  • 2 tbsp Vegetable Oil
  • 1 tbsp Powdered Sugar
  • 1 container Chocolate Frosting
  • 1 container Whipped Vanilla Frosting

Instructions

  1. Heat oven to 375°F. Line bottom only of 15x10x1-inch pan with waxed paper; spray with baking spray and sprinkle with flour. (For the extra batter, place paper baking cups in 8 regular-size muffin cups.)

  2. In large bowl, beat eggs with electric mixer on high speed about 5 minutes or until thick and lemon colored. Add cake mix, water and oil; beat on low speed 30 seconds, then on medium speed 1 minute, scraping bowl occasionally. Pour 3 1/2 cups batter into pan. Divide remaining batter among muffin cups.

  3. Bake 14 to 16 minutes or until cake springs back when lightly touched in center and cupcakes test done when toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. If necessary, run knife around edges of pan to loosen cake. Turn cake upside down onto clean kitchen towel sprinkled with 1 tablespoon powdered sugar; carefully remove pan liner. While hot, carefully roll up cake and towel from narrow end. 

  4. Cool rolled cake completely on cooling rack, about 1 hour.  [Cool cupcakes and save for another use.]

  5. When cool, unroll the cake carefully, and remove towel. Spread vanilla frosting evenly over inside of cake. Carefully roll up cake without the towel. Place cake roll on serving plate. Frost the outside of cake with chocolate frosting. Using fork, drag tines through frosting to look like log. 

  6. Store loosely covered in refrigerator. Let stand at room temperature 30 minutes before serving.

Recipe Notes

You can use your favorite frosting recipes or even Cool Whip or ice cream for the inside of the Yule Log. This Pillsbury recipe is available at https://www.pillsbury.com/recipes/yule-log/b7cf1df3-33b5-429c-9f08-edc30a1c9dba

Spinach Stuffed Shells

Spinach Stuffed Shells

Looks festive for the holiday season and tastes delicious.

Course Main Course
Cuisine Italian
Keyword Stuffed Shells
Prep Time 20 minutes
Cook Time 30 minutes
Total Time 50 minutes
Servings 12

Ingredients

  • 24 Jumbo Pasta Shells 8 ounces
  • 10 oz. Spinach Defrosted and drained
  • 2 cups Cottage Cheese
  • 4 tbsp. Grated Parmesan Cheese
  • 1/4 tsp. Black Pepper
  • 1 Egg
  • 8 oz. Shredded Mozzarella Cheese
  • 24 oz. Prepared Marinara Sauce

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.  Cook shells on the stovetop, following the package directions. Drain well.

  2. In a mixing bowl, combine cottage cheese, Parmesan cheese, egg, spinach, and pepper. Mix well.

  3. Spread a layer of Marinara sauce on the bottom of a 9 x 13 inch baking dish. Stuff each of the cooked shells with the cottage cheese and spinach mixture. Place them in a single layer on the sauce in the baking dish. Top with the remaining Marinara sauce and the shredded Mozzarella cheese.

  4. Bake until the cheese is melted and the shells are heated through, about 30 minutes.

Recipe Notes

This recipe may be made with Ricotta cheese instead of cottage cheese for a more authentic Italian flavor, but I like using the low fat cottage cheese and, more often, have it on hand.

Fresh spinach can be used instead of frozen. It’s your choice.

Springerle Cookies

Springerle Cookies

Traditional German cookie with an anise flavor. A favorite in our house.

Course Dessert
Cuisine German
Keyword Springerle
Prep Time 30 minutes
Cook Time 30 minutes
Resting Time 12 hours
Total Time 1 hour
Servings 60

Ingredients

  • 4 Eggs
  • 1 lb Confectioner’s Sugar 4-1/4 cups
  • 2 tsp Anise Extract
  • 1 tsp Baking Powder
  • 3 cups All-Purpose Flour
  • 1 tbsp Anise Seed

Instructions

  1. Beat eggs at high speed until thick and lemony yellow. About 10 minutes. 

  2. Continue beating while slowly adding the confectioner’s sugar, 1/2 cup at a time until fully incorporated. Add anise extract.

  3. Add baking powder. Continue beating while slowly adding the flour, 1/2 cup at a time until fully incorporated.

  4. On floured wax paper, roll out the dough to 1/2 inch thickness. (You can do this in batches). If you have a springerle rolling pin with the embedded designs, lightly roll across the rolled out dough to stamp the designs. If not, cut the rolled dough in squares.

  5. Sprinkle a light amount of anise seeds on lightly greased cookie sheets. Place the dough squares on top of the seeds, about a 1/2 inch apart. Let dry, uncovered, overnight (about 12 hours).

  6. The next day, preheat oven to 250 degrees F.  Bake springerles 25-30 minutes until firm but still white. Remove to wire racks or wax paper to cool.

  7. Any anise seeds that don’t stick to the bottom of the cookies can be brushed into the airtight containers with the cooled cookies. Flavors develop as the cookies are stored.

Recipe Notes

I have a springerle rolling pin, but it never works right. I just skip the designs. My springerles look rustic, not even in perfect squares, but they are mighty tasty.

Raisin Spice Cookies

Raisin Spice Cookies

This is an updated old family recipe. Always a favorite at Christmas.

Course Dessert
Cuisine American
Keyword Raisin Spice Cookies
Prep Time 20 minutes
Cook Time 12 minutes
Total Time 32 minutes
Servings 36

Ingredients

  • 1 Egg
  • 1 cup Brown Sugar
  • 1 stick Butter Melted
  • 2 tbsp Non-fat Greek Yogurt Unsweetend
  • 1 cup Raisins
  • 1 tsp Cinnamon
  • 1/2 tsp Nutmeg
  • 1/4 tsp Allspice
  • 1/2 tsp Baking Powder
  • 1/8 tsp Baking Soda
  • 1-3/4 cups All-Purpose Flour

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees F. Grease baking sheets or spray with cooking oil.

  2. Beat egg and brown sugar until creamy. Add melted butter and Greek yogurt. When combined well, add the spices, baking powder, and baking soda. Mix well. 

  3. Add the flour in segments, beating with each submission. The dough gets thick, so you may need to switch to incorporating the flour with a spoon.  Add raisins, thoroughly mixing.

  4. Drop by teaspoonfuls onto prepared baking sheets, about an inch apart. These cookies don’t spread, but give them room to breathe. Bake 12 minutes. Remove to cool on wire rack or waxed paper.

Recipe Notes

The original recipe called for sour milk. The recipe worked well with non-fat Greek Yogurt. I would imagine sour cream would work as well.

Turkey Noodle Soup

Turkey Noodle Soup

Easy to make. Good use of leftover turkey or chicken.

Course Soup
Cuisine American
Keyword Turkey Noodle Soup
Prep Time 10 minutes
Cook Time 20 minutes
Total Time 30 minutes
Servings 4

Ingredients

  • 1 quart Chicken Broth
  • 2 stalks Celery Chopped
  • 1 cup Turkey Chopped
  • 1/2 cup Dry Noodles
  • 1/2 tsp Black Pepper
  • 1/2 tsp Dried Parsley Flakes

Instructions

  1. Pour entire carton of chicken broth into saucepan. Add chopped celery and cook on medium heat.

  2. Add chopped turkey to the pot. Season with pepper and dried parsley. Stir and let simmer for about 10 minutes to incorporate flavors.

  3. Stir in noodles. Turn up heat so noodles come to a boil, then turn heat to low until ready to serve. 

Recipe Notes

I use Barilla Fideo Cut Spaghetti for the noodles. 

 

Use leftover turkey or leftover chicken, whatever amount suits your fancy.

 

Ham Croquettes

Ham Croquettes

A great use of leftover ham. Yum!

Course Main Course
Cuisine French
Keyword Ham Croquettes
Prep Time 50 minutes
Cook Time 6 minutes
Total Time 56 minutes
Servings 8

Ingredients

  • 3 tbsp Butter
  • 3 tbsp All-purpose Flour
  • 1 cup Milk
  • 1/2 tsp Salt
  • 1/4 tsp Pepper
  • 2 cups Ham
  • 1 Onion
  • 1 Egg Slightly Beaten
  • 4 tbsp Bread Crumbs

Instructions

  1. Make the Thick White Sauce with the first five ingredients. Melt the butter in a saucepan, add the flour, and stir until all of the flour is incorporated. Add the milk and stir over medium heat until the sauce is thickened. Remove from heat.

  2. Chop the ham and onion together in the food processor. Add the chopped meat to the cooled cream sauce and mix well. Season to taste.

  3. Form the ham/sauce mixture into balls, cones, or cylinders. Roll in bread crumbs, then coat with beaten egg, and roll in bread crumbs again. Deep fry in oil (385 degrees F.) until brown. Drain on paper towels.

Recipe Notes

I chop the ham/onions in batches. You can omit the onion if you prefer, though I think it adds to the flavor.

I do this recipe in stages. I might chop up the ham and onions after a ham dinner and store in the refrigerator. (If you have a lot of the chopped mixture, you can also make a nice deviled ham with the leftover.) Then, I might form into cylinders and do the coating earlier in the day that the croquettes will be served. All that's left is the frying.

I tried baking these instead of frying, but they tend to fall apart. I also tried pan frying with just a little oil. Same thing happened. Still tasty but not pretty. Deep fat frying works best.

Almond Flavored Nuggets

Almond Flavored Nuggets

A tasty morsel, easy to make

Course Snack
Cuisine American
Keyword Almond Flavored Nuggets
Prep Time 10 minutes
Cook Time 18 minutes
Total Time 28 minutes
Servings 30

Ingredients

  • 3/4 cup Butter Softened
  • 1/4 cup Granulated Sugar
  • 2 tsp Almond Extract
  • 2 tsp Water
  • 2 cups All-purpose Flour

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. 

  2. Cream the butter and sugar with an electric mixer until light and fluffy.

  3. Add almond flavoring and water, continuing to beat. Add the flour in 1/2 cup increments until smooth.

  4. Divide the mixture into two rolled logs, about an inch in diameter. Wrap in plastic wrap and refrigerate until ready to use. Cut the logs into 1/2 inch slices and place them an inch apart on an ungreased baking sheet. Sprinkle with colored sugar.

  5. Bake until pale golden, about 18 minutes. Transfer cookies to waxed paper or a wire rack to cool.

Recipe Notes

If you prefer not to wait before baking, you can roll the cookie dough to 1/2" thickness and use a shot glass to cut into small circles.

You can omit the colored sugar before baking. Instead, dust the cookies with powdered sugar or finely ground almonds when they are still warm after baking.

Nancy’s Cheese Ball

Nancy's Cheese Ball

Spicy and delicious

Course Appetizer
Cuisine American
Keyword Nancy's Cheese Ball
Prep Time 20 minutes
Total Time 20 minutes
Servings 24

Ingredients

  • 16 oz Extra Sharp Cheddar Cheese Grated
  • 1 stick Butter Room Temperature
  • 1 medium Onion Finely chopped
  • 1 medium Pepper Finely chopped
  • 2 tsp Prepared Horseradish
  • 4 tsp Worcestershire Sauce
  • 1 tbsp Paprika

Instructions

  1. Mix all ingredients well with hands. 

  2. Shape mixture into a ball and roll in paprika. Keep in refrigerator until ready to serve.

Cold Feet

cold feetDid you ever have cold feet? Literally or figuratively. Probably both at one time or another.

I got cold feet on Thanksgiving night. Literally. When I went to bed, my feet were freezing. Outside temperatures were in the low teens. Fahrenheit. I turned on the electric blanket, raising it up a notch every few minutes until I finally felt warmth. Cozily wiggling my toes, I suddenly realized that the next night would be very different. I was planning to buy a cute springer spaniel puppy on Friday afternoon.

I began to picture myself throwing off the covers every hour or so to take the puppy outside, remembering my first puppy-training efforts years ago. I would remind my first dog, Heidi, to pee, as I stood in my jammies in the front yard, which she would promptly do as soon as we got inside the house. My springer spaniel, Pete, was smart. He trained in less than a week. But we went outside a lot that week.

Even the thoughts of beginning puppy hygiene on cold winter nights gave me shivers. It wouldn’t be much better in the early morning. I knew the new puppy would have me awake and outside at the crack of dawn. The icy crack.

Turning up the electric blanket another notch cemented my decision. Winter was not the time to start puppy training. Not for me, at least. My literal cold feet turned into figurative cold feet. I began to itemize all of the reasons that I shouldn’t get a new canine companion. So, I didn’t.

I’ve experienced the figurative cold feet numerous times. Standing in front of a congregation to cantor gives me cold feet. But I do it. Hitting the upload button when I think my latest book is ready for publication gives me cold feet. But I do it. Giving a presentation gives me cold feet. But I do it.

What’s the difference, I wondered? How is it that we’re able to overcome some fears, but not others? Sometimes our fears hold us back from accomplishing a dream because we don’t think we can do it. Maybe it’s just not the right time.

A new puppy is not in the cards for me at this moment. It’s OK. One of these days, I’ll know when it’s the right time. Or not. For now, I’ll enjoy my warm feet.